The modern market does favor a handful of large players for each market - this is true in almost all sectors though. This not a monopoly though; as long as the top players change over time it is still a working market.
This is not a part of anyone's definition of 'monopoly', ever. Monopoly means dominance in a particular market - nothing more, nothing less: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monopoly
Foursquare’s Swarm has a monopoly on social network checking in to places with optional photos + logged notes.
Tiago Forte has dominance in courses/in depth, varied content on building a second brain.
Readwise.io has dominance in spaced repetition learning from synced data.
There’s only one or two sites/communities for my personality disorder that doesn’t get much attention. They dominate the market.
There’s only one app that has you put up money for habits/challenges you complete via video selfies. Spar App (side note: horrible ownership/stewards of the app)
There was previously one community forum for video game site owners.
[almost] all of these have [near] 100% of their market. I don’t believe people would consider any of them monopolies.
This statement would be relevant here if these companies hadn't been replaced by even bigger monopolies. So if facebook and apple is replaced by something even bigger, the folks who are afraid of monopolies would have more to worry about.