> Hacker News. Similar to Reddit, but aimed towards a more technical audience. However, you don't get a dedicated space for your links.

https://news.ycombinator.com/from?site=darekkay.com

(I was going to say 'you do sort of', excepting that you can't stop others' submissions going there - but then I realised that's even more 'control' than Reddit gives you, since it's inherently only your site; if others submitted it it's still your content.)