But the point is that you don't control the website's hashing algorithm, or whether they hash at all, or whether they store their hashes in a public s3 bucket. They may tell you what they do, they may not. But you have to trust them either way.
A long random password using a variety of characters is the only control I have when setting my password. If they have a good hashing system and protect their hashes, my long random password will not hurt anything. If they truncate my password before hashing, it will still be the best password I can make for that app.
If I use 5 5 letter words as my password and they truncate after the first 10, how would I know? My password might be "horseapple" instead of "horseapplehappygreennymph".
If I give them 10 alphanumerics and they leak their md5 hashes, I'm pwned in a few days, assuming they even salt it.
If I give them 20 random alphanumeric+symbol then I can't imagine what exotic thing they could do wrong to make it less safe than any other password I choose.
I might make an exception for some streaming service that I have to enter by hand on a tv remote control, but otherwise i am going to generate it with max entropy because I am never going to look at it anyway.
There are many scenarios where an attacker might be able to grab the hashes, but still need to crack them in order to get access to other data from your account. If there is a sql injection vulnerability in the authentication service, for example, it does not mean they can necessarily overwrite the hash or access data in other parts of the application.
I once found a bug in a payment processor that let me download the user record including password hash for all users in that payment processor. But I couldn't use that to get their stored credit card numbers directly. However, if I had brute forced those hashes, I would have been able to log in as them and access their other account data and make transfers, etc. I am sure a large majority of those password would have been very easy to crack. If I was an attacker, those would have been my first targets.