Re:Stockholm parents built their own school app, then the ci...
by renewiltord on Thursday November 04, 2021 @05:32PM
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Okay, with this email business we’re back with the “micromanaging”.
Re:Stockholm parents built their own school app, then the ci...
by watwut on Friday November 05, 2021 @03:14AM
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In which alternative universe is teacher telling parent that homework 7 years old was not done micromanaging? Even among adults, analyst telling project manager you are not doing tasks right is not micromanaging. Or your peer developer telling pm your quality of work is bad. It is completely absurd.
The whole point of child raising is to raise the child. Not to go "kiddy, if you are not born organized and attentive, tough luck, we gonna do nothing and then blame you for being bad in school when you grow".
Re:Stockholm parents built their own school app, then the ci...
by renewiltord on Friday November 05, 2021 @12:58PM
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Actually, I agree with that position, which is why I started this sub thread curious about how this comment played out https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29108069
My point is that by the standards of that comment, you are micromanaging. I think those standards are ridiculous, though.
Plainly, parents of successful kids are all very involved. This sort of “you sink or swim on your own merits” nonsense is moronic bullshit.
The other option is to ask in the evening "have you done homework". One of my kids would never lie and other only rarely, so it worked.
To add to it, old system was not freedom. One feature of old "parents know only what kids tell them" system was that many parents learned about issues only when inevitable end of semester report/grades came. At that point, issues grew large. Even worst, parents were surprised and shocked, tended to react badly, punish the kid , yell, beat them etc. I remember reading about flux of kids running away each time reports come.