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Re:People prefer friendliness, trustworthiness in teammates ... by antonzabirko on Tuesday November 02, 2021 @12:42PM (#29083721)
Life is what you make of it not what it makes of you. If you don't want anger it doesn't need to be there.
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Re:People prefer friendliness, trustworthiness in teammates ... by tomc1985 on Tuesday November 02, 2021 @04:08PM (#29086739)
But it isn't. Circumstance molds you. The Great Depression did untold psychological damage to entire generations. I don't think they could just will the anger and resentment and destitution away
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Re:People prefer friendliness, trustworthiness in teammates ... by antonzabirko on Tuesday November 02, 2021 @05:37PM (#29087730)
Circumstance is what you allow it to be. Short of being put in a Chinese concentration camp ala Uighurs, you generally have the last say in circumstance to experience anger.
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