As long as Gtk refuses to support this, I can fix KDE, but I can't fix Java or browsers.
Java, Firefox and Chrome reject patches, saying Gnome is responsible. Gnome says they don't care.
And I don't want to run custom builds of Firefox and Java anymore. It was such a hassle constantly building them from source with my old patchset.
If you are really committed to using Linux and don't want to wait then I said it before but I think a better use of your time would be to spend a few hundred dollars on some different monitors that can work at just 2x scale, and then let someone else deal with this.
Usual price point around $1600-$2200.
Comparable 2× monitors start at around $4500, and the cheapest option only supports macOS and has a $1000 monitor stand.
A "few hundred dollars" won't be enough.
At the moment, I just work all day at ~10-15fps using Budgie with fractional dpi on X11, but it's definitely not a great experience.
I used to be 100% in on KDE, but as you mentioned, Wayland support is limited.
Budgie is atm sadly the only option for multi-monitor hidpi that's not using gnome's broken top bar concept.
That said, 10-15 fps on X11 is a pathological case, something is wrong there. When I ran X11 and played with xrandr, the slightly larger framebuffer had zero impact (outside games) on AMD Vega64.