The reason there is no law against being “too powerful” is because it is a nebulous description that is not enforceable in a fair manner.
"Although the courts "have not yet identified a precise level at which monopoly power will be inferred"[1]
[1]Section of Antitrust Law, Am. Bar Ass'n, Market Power Handbook 1920 (2005).
If a company is using its power to do something harmful, write laws against the harmful thing, irrespective of how much power the company has. Illegalizing shadow profiles of non-users would be a good step forward, illegalizing them only for FB-sized companies would be less good.
If a handful of companies are operating as a monopoly, that's already well-defined as an oligopoly.
I think the only other situation where a company can be too powerful is if they get too much power over the regulators. I expect it's rare to get there without becoming a monopoly or oligopoly, but it's probably not impossible.
I agree, hence my explanation of why there are no laws against "too powerful" companies. It is not an actionable condition.