Why obsessively following successful people online is dangerous

Re:Why obsessively following successful people online is dan... by edmundsauto on Monday October 04, 2021 @09:26PM (#28754480)

Agreed! The really fascinating part to me is how we define control over ourselves. In the end, however, I suspect it doesn't matter - it's kind of like a reverse Pascal's Wager: it's better to think we have control, because otherwise why even try?

Put a little differently, regardless of what the absolute truth resolves to - it's in my best interest to take the illusion of control.

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Re:Why obsessively following successful people online is dan... by xorfish on Tuesday October 05, 2021 @03:18AM (#28756396)

I think the world would be a better place if we accepted that we do not really have controll.

Poverty and Crime are not moral failings.

Presumably we would make the lives of such people far better if we attribute their missfortune to just bad luck.

Redistributing wealth from people that got lucky is also simpler than if we'd attribute their success to their goodness.

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Re:Why obsessively following successful people online is dan... by edmundsauto on Tuesday October 05, 2021 @06:16PM (#28766425)

That's an interesting perspective. Are you saying that humanity as a whole would be better, if we built societal structures that acknowledge how much less control we have than we perceive?

My comment was mostly about my own orientation towards the world. Maybe I do have control, maybe I don't - but I feel better (and hopefully have better outcomes) with the illusion of control/actual control, instead of letting go. OTOH, I also get a lot of stress relief from letting go and not trying to control things during meditation.

Living is hard.

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