> I don't think cryptobros and the rest of the world have the same definition of "decentralized" because clearly we don't understand each other
This is true of most of the common sales points: for example, you'll see people claim blockchains are censorship resistant or anonymous, beneficial to the global unbanked, etc. with little ability to explain how that's actually true in practice.
You're litterally sending this message accross a decentralized system that outscaled bitcoin by many many orders of magnitudes in a fraction of the time.
I don't think cryptobros and the rest of the world have the same definition of "decentralized" because clearly we don't understand each other