I know you're not :) I try to be explicit that I'm only talking about my own experience here. I try not to write about my experiences with Go because it was a very long time ago at this point, and I find it a bit distasteful to talk about for various reasons, but we apparently have quite different experiences.

Maybe it depends on other factors too. But in practice, I basically never think about memory management. I write code. The compiler sometimes complains. When it does, 99.9% of the time I go "oh yeah" and then fix it. It's not a significant part of my experience when writing code. It does not slow me down, and the 0.1% of the time when it does, it's made up for it in some other part of the process.

I wish there was a good way to actually test these sorts of things.