I've had similar problems. I fully agree with the other commenter: if you have a point, just say it minus the cheek.
As mentioned in another comment: Quite the opposite.
Discord should easily allow to have completely separate identities with no connection to each other at all.
If that's not possible and there's the risk of mixing up my private life and whatnot with my work life, Discord should not be the place/service to use.
I don't see how this contributtes to the civil discussion we are trying to have here on an interesting post.
HN expects you to be civil, and abide by the "extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence " paradigm. I find them to be reasonable requirements.
If you'd like to express more heterodox views then there are a few rationalist-adjacent splinter groups around the internet with excellent discourse over a wide range of opinions. Each splinter group has different overton windows, but they're all of a really high quality.
I'd rather rather compromise on a couple of laughs than see HN become a generic reddit like forum / social network.
Just may 2 cents