Early on my wife and I had a blow out argument about the dishwasher. Truth is we just started living together and we had some little annoyances bottled up and the dishwasher is what broke the camels back that evening. But, we remember it as the dishwasher fight. And, she does all the dishes now because I’m standing my ground that there is nothing wrong with my method, it’s just not hers. Happily married and have been living together for almost 20 years now and I haven’t loaded a single dish in almost as long. It actually worked out brilliantly for me now that I think about it.