Re:The Anatomy of Assholes (2020)
by BrandoElFollito on Monday September 06, 2021 @09:54AM
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To some extend this is the case in France.
People are going to "probe" you with some more or less controversial claims or comments and see how you will behave. This is part of the culture and is honestly tiring.
I would not call it "bullying" yet, but it is still a violent way to probe someone's character.
Re:The Anatomy of Assholes (2020)
by eurasiantiger on Tuesday August 31, 2021 @07:22AM
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In my experience with organisations, it is the people with the most agency (i.e. leaders and their cliques) who set the standard for those group dynamics.
If you get bullied by your boss, you can count on others joining in.
It seems to fit your example and I think it provides some useful frames for thinking about this and how to improve things.