Re:Boys in Custody and the Women Who Abuse Them
by SamoyedFurFluff on Sunday August 29, 2021 @05:46PM
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It isn’t sexual abuse for a jailer to not fuck the people they’re jailing. Describing it as abuse because of the logic that people who are in prison can’t reasonably non-coercively consent to sex with the people who are controlling every aspect of their life doesn’t make sense in the context that it isn’t abuse to not have sex.
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Re:Boys in Custody and the Women Who Abuse Them
by DangitBobby on Sunday August 29, 2021 @05:50PM
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That's not at all what the original comment said. It said, to paraphrase, that denying teenage boys their sexual agency is itself a form of abuse. I have no idea where you even got your original idea.
Re:Boys in Custody and the Women Who Abuse Them
by ufmace on Sunday August 29, 2021 @07:20PM
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There was a pretty good SSC article on kind of the same subject: https://slatestarcodex.com/2017/04/04/determining-consent/
Basic idea is, yeah it feels a very wrong and likely to cover up lots of serious abuse to say that jailers are allowed to have sex with their inmates. But if you're in custody in a same-sex facility and jailers are the only people of the opposite sex you're ever in contact with, it seems also a little wrong to effectively say you're not allowed to have any sex with anyone ever (presuming you're not homosexual of course).