Honestly I think that's a continuous claim, and comes down to differences in understanding. I can certainly have 7 of some object, does the 7-ness exist in the collection? Not really, but what about another phenomenon: colour? An object appears blue, and we say it is blue, and the blueness is due to physics, but it's a subjective delineation. A table is a delineation too, the leg is part of the table and the White House is not. In some sense, the table-ness category is just as real as the 7-ness category.
Of course you could just say that all that actually exists is some collection of particles/fields, but then you've abused all the words we're using until they stop being useful.
[0] https://www.quantamagazine.org/what-is-a-particle-20201112/
At best, when you "hand me 7 electrons", you're directing me towards the fat part of 7 probability distributions, so we're back to math again...
This is true of all mathematical objects. The number 7 doesn't exist in the universe either. It's not a physical object.