Here's my current level of jade -- listening to repeated stories about hospital staff having to argue with a patient's family (all unvaccinated) about why they can't visit the patient (also unvaccinated) in the COVID ward, when care is being withdrawn due to organ failure.
At some point, it's like, "Jesus. Just stop talking, and please let me help you not kill yourself."
However, the calculus changes when the health system is at or over capacity. Now, if two people come in and both are critically ill, but you only have room for one, I'm ok with choosing the one that was vaccinated. Likewise with many other situations and illnesses. If you cause a car accident, and both you and the person you hit require the ICU, but there is only one spot open, I'm ok with the person that got hit getting the spot.
Now, I'm assuming you are jaded like me and know that actual answer is probably the person with the most money tends to get the treatment, but that's another bitter, cynical discussion.