> How do you get trees to avoid destroying concrete/pavement with roots?

If that type of tree is known to have extensive roots, perhaps you could use smaller tiles on the pavement nearby and let the roots find their way.

The eventual result might look unsettling to some, though[0] (I know it does to me).

I guess it does make part of the pavement inaccessible for wheelchair users… But then I believe that must be a massive old tree there.

[0] https://imgur.com/a/k8OUF84