When I was young, I was not effectively spied on. My activity and digital trail were ephemeral, and hard to pin down. i wasn't the subkect of constant analysis and scrutiny. I had the privilege of being invited into the engine of an idling train to share an Engineer's drinks along with my parents and no one batted an eye.
There were pedophiles then too. guess what? We didn't sacrifice everyone's right to privacy. We didn't lock more and more rights out of the reach of minors. You didn't need a damn college degree and an insane amount of idealistic commitment to opt out of the surveillance machine. I could fill most prescriptions, even out of State.
We didn't fear the monster. They were hunted with everything we could justify mustering, but you weren't treated as one by default.
I imagine that maybe, somehow, tomorrow's youth may get to experience that. Not live in fear, but in appreciation of the fact that we too, looked into things absolutely worth being afraid of, but resisted the temptation to surrender yet more liberties for the promise of a safety that will never manifest. Just change its stripes.
Those are the best nights.
No. My elders and society just denied the monsters existed. And punished any one who talked about it.
I know they’re out there in the world, but I leave my home anyways, because living my entire life curled up in my bed in fear would be a sad and short life.
I’m more afraid that people will lose the ability to be happy because they’re so full of fear and skepticism that they don’t form meaningful relationships, relax, experience life.
I’m also more afraid of what can happen when a small group of people are allowed to dictate and control the lives of many, justifying it by pushing fear. Then it’ll be more than a small group of abusers harming a small group of people (in this case, child abusers). It becomes a different group of abusers (dictators) harming the entire population through their dystopian politics.
How many people, including children, died when a group of dictators used fear & skepticism in the 1930s to push an agenda that ultimately led to WWII and concentration camps?
We need to be extraordinarily careful that we don’t try to save a very small number of lives at the expense of many lives in the future, as a result of policies that we put in place today.