Postgres has always prioritized correctness, and more sophisticated datatype and query features ... mysql/mariadb have had more consistent performance and easier/more-flexible replication. I'm thinking about auto-vacuum and logical replication to upgraded versions... I've had much less trouble with mysql/mariadb around these topics many years ago, than I've had with Postgres relatively recently. But also, I don't care so much about fancy data types and query features, I stick to the basics.