Uh, wat? Which kids are dying from covid? This level of hyperbole is insane.
What do you suggest is done when everyone throws their hands up and medical demand exceeds supply? I fail to see how being unable to admit patients is some impossible scenario.
Here's an article from 2018 about LA County's makeshift flu hospital tent, which they built because the flu season was so bad then: https://www.latimes.com/local/lanow/la-me-ln-flu-demand-2018...
So, what I suggest is done, is what hospitals have always done, which is do their best to make it work.
"Two weeks to flatten the curve" was all about giving hospitals a chance and not be overwhelmed, and presumably, get better prepared. It's been 1.5 years. How long do you think it's reasonable to extend that 2 weeks to?
If levels stay as is, you're completely right. The issue is that they likely won't and certainly won't if "everyone does what they want."
That is an acceptable price to pay for indulging in crankery. /s
If everyone did what they wanted, what would the medical staff do? Go home and let them die on the sidewalk? Kids dying in the streets by no fault of their own wouldn't go over well.