Or for people like me, wfh will be a perk that actually attracts us, whereas lunches and nap rooms are worthless at best (I prefer making my own food and having a healthy sleep routine) or red flags at worst (too much time in office).

My ideal office is how my favorite job was: deserted around 4:55pm, managers and directors included. 2 hour lunches not uncommon. Work-life balance always the primary focus. Unfortunately my ideal job includes never going into an office, so I'll have to continue looking elsewhere.