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Re:Ask HN: 30 years old with no career by adnmcq999 on Monday July 05, 2021 @10:15PM (#27743622)
Therapist might help. Ppl have told me to do that, and I guess I’ve technically been once or twice a long time ago before I could make the decision myself

BUT… I don’t think there is necessarily anything wrong with OP for feeing this. There’s a reason why Office Space is popular. I sometimes think there’s something wrong with the people I know who like their bullshit jobs or take their work seriously. Either deluded or really good at acting.

Re:Ask HN: 30 years old with no career by larrywright on Monday July 05, 2021 @10:17PM (#27743638)
Don’t underestimate the power of changing the way you look at things in your life, which a therapist can help with.
Re:Ask HN: 30 years old with no career by sarajevo on Monday July 05, 2021 @10:40PM (#27743758)
A different perspective always helps. I know someone who had issues focusing and deferring gratification, she’s doing better now. I am not diagnosing and this is just a random example where therapy helped... bTW, my dad retired without knowing what he “really” wanted to do...