Ask HN: Words of encouragement for someone lost in life?

Re:Ask HN: Words of encouragement for someone lost in life? by nyanpasu64 on Friday June 25, 2021 @10:05PM (#27638399)

> sincerely evaluate your style of dress (do you give off a feminine-milquetoast or masculine vibe) visit Reddit, etc for ideas

Are you making a value judgment on which style is right and wrong?

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Re:Ask HN: Words of encouragement for someone lost in life? by blindmute on Saturday June 26, 2021 @11:10AM (#27642527)

This kind of subjectivist ideology in everything is what makes young men depressed in the first place. Yes, there is a way to dress that will improve your life, and there is a way to dress that won't, and it is not subjective within a culture.

Pretending that anyone can just do anything and be anything, including undesirable, and be perfectly happy and fulfilled, is just a cope.

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Re:Ask HN: Words of encouragement for someone lost in life? by nomdep on Friday June 25, 2021 @11:06PM (#27638698)

None are “right” or “wrong”. It’s about being “effective” at projecting the image one is striving for.

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Re:Ask HN: Words of encouragement for someone lost in life? by swader999 on Saturday June 26, 2021 @12:48AM (#27639204)

I would say ill fitting is definitely wrong.

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