Re:Ask HN: How to Deal with Disagreements?
by PaulHoule on Friday June 25, 2021 @04:15PM
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You are expressing your discontent so you "own the problem".
This doesn't necessarily mean you do most of the work, but it does mean you decide when it is solved.
Decide what your values are, what you can accept and not accept. Be wary of things you can accept "this once" that will drive you up the wall if they happen repeatedly.
You should be able to tell people in this situation how you think this behavior affects you and the organization.
If you get a bad outcome in a situation repeatedly, prepare ahead of time!
In some situations I get flustered, inarticulate, and exhausted. If am not exhausted and flustered I can be articulate, so planning is a big help to me.
This doesn't necessarily mean you do most of the work, but it does mean you decide when it is solved.
Decide what your values are, what you can accept and not accept. Be wary of things you can accept "this once" that will drive you up the wall if they happen repeatedly.
You should be able to tell people in this situation how you think this behavior affects you and the organization.
If you get a bad outcome in a situation repeatedly, prepare ahead of time!
In some situations I get flustered, inarticulate, and exhausted. If am not exhausted and flustered I can be articulate, so planning is a big help to me.