Re:Ask HN: I was hit with a patent troll lawsuit, how do I d...
by denton-scratch on Monday June 21, 2021 @03:38PM
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Ignoring some recruiter you've never heard of isn't 'ghosting'. 'Ghosting' is when someone you know, and have a reasonable expectation will take your calls, suddenly stops taking them, without explanation.
It's a discourteous and lazy way of dumping a romantic interest.
Re:Ask HN: I was hit with a patent troll lawsuit, how do I d...
by N00bN00b on Monday June 21, 2021 @04:19PM
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>It's a discourteous and lazy way of dumping a romantic interest.
Language isn't fixed, the meaning of words, especially "new" words (and ghosting is a new verb) changes over time. That was the original meaning, but it's now applied to all relationships.
>Ghosting is by no means limited to long-term romantic relationships. Informal dating relationships, friendships, even work relationships may end with a form of ghosting.
Re:Ask HN: I was hit with a patent troll lawsuit, how do I d...
by denton-scratch on Monday June 21, 2021 @06:44PM
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I was unclear (in the interest of brevity:-)
For clarity, I didn't mean that ghosting was only to do with dumping partners. I suppose I was suggesting that that's the canonical example.
Re:Ask HN: I was hit with a patent troll lawsuit, how do I d...
by N00bN00b on Tuesday June 22, 2021 @03:34AM
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Ah alright. I thought you didn't know. Have a good one.
Re:Ask HN: I was hit with a patent troll lawsuit, how do I d...
by iudqnolq on Monday June 21, 2021 @02:36PM
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I think it's only ghosting if you break off a conversation, not if you never start one. If I send you Viagra spam and you don't reply that's clearly not ghosting.
Re:Ask HN: I was hit with a patent troll lawsuit, how do I d...
by MereInterest on Monday June 21, 2021 @03:34PM
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I think "ghosting" is also used when one person breaks off a conversation, but the other person continues the conversation despite the conversation being broken off. At that point, an obnoxiously persistent person may conclude that that are being ghosted, rather than noticing that the conversation was over.
It's clearly rude to ghost friends, acquaintances, business partners etc. But if someone reached out to you with the intention of doing business with you, I think it's ok to ghost them if you're 100% not interested. Am I wrong?