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Re:Fewer young men are in the labor force, more are living a... by exporectomy on Saturday June 12, 2021 @12:42AM (#27481595)
Without a career or at least some sort of good job, most men are extremely unattractive as long term partners for women. They can't just find a wife to support them while they look after the kids. So they'll end up without a career and without a family, which can be a very sad existence. For women, families are easier to come by regardless of career status.
Re:Fewer young men are in the labor force, more are living a... by throw737858 on Saturday June 12, 2021 @12:49AM (#27481622)
Imagine some people retire in peace at 50. What a sad, sad, pathetic existence :)
Re:Fewer young men are in the labor force, more are living a... by exporectomy on Saturday June 12, 2021 @01:43AM (#27481887)
Retirement is often sad and pathetic.
Re:Fewer young men are in the labor force, more are living a... by graphtradr on Saturday June 12, 2021 @06:08AM (#27483258)
Exactly. I am almost 50 myself. Retire and do what? Wait do die? Drink wine all day and wait to die?

There isn't much to me that is worth doing that wouldn't produce some kind of income.

Still so much I want to do yet, I don't have time for retirement.

Re:Fewer young men are in the labor force, more are living a... by SyzygistSix on Saturday June 12, 2021 @02:00PM (#27486255)
Ride bicycles and/or motorcycles. Travel. Hike. Read. Learn things. Volunteer. Cooking is fun. Gardening as well.

I'm at a loss for how people can get bored and I don't even game or watch much in the way of movies or television. I think for some people they get attuned to work so much that they don't remember what life is like without it.

Re:Fewer young men are in the labor force, more are living a... by ryandrake on Sunday June 13, 2021 @01:30AM (#27490010)
Totally agree. I don’t think I’ve been bored since I was a teenager. Every day I think to myself, all the things I could do with extra time in the day, if I didn’t have to work for a living. I am counting down the days until I retire! My nightmare actually is I die the day after I retire, just as I’m getting ready to start living my life!
Re:Fewer young men are in the labor force, more are living a... by exporectomy on Sunday June 13, 2021 @04:01AM (#27490718)
Have you actually experienced a long period (year or more) with no obligations like work or school? It's much easier to be motivated when you're busy than when there's no real need for your effort or deadline for anything. I know some people manage great and have very active retirements but some just fade into passivity. Keep an eye out for the danger warned by John Mellencamp - "Life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone".
Re:Fewer young men are in the labor force, more are living a... by SyzygistSix on Sunday June 13, 2021 @10:14AM (#27492778)
>Have you actually experienced a long period (year or more) with no obligations like work or school?

I have. And have had no problems filling it with the above activities. My folks are retired and don't seem to be having much trouble finding creative projects and enjoyable things to do, like hiking and discovering new things.

Honestly I thought my dad would be a prime candidate for the type who gets so used to chasing the rabbit that they have no idea what to do once they retire. I'm glad to see that isn't the case.

Re:Fewer young men are in the labor force, more are living a... by exporectomy on Monday June 14, 2021 @05:38PM (#27508648)
Fantastic. I'm pretty sure I'm the wrong type myself and it's a bit of a worry. Hobbies are a lot more exciting when I don't have time for them.
Re:Fewer young men are in the labor force, more are living a... by the_only_law on Sunday June 13, 2021 @12:02PM (#27493681)
> Every day I think to myself, all the things I could do with extra time in the day, if I didn’t have to work for a living.

I think about stuff like this too, but then I remember how my existing hobbies are already funded by my job.

Re:Fewer young men are in the labor force, more are living a... by kwdc on Saturday June 12, 2021 @12:31PM (#27485535)
Why retire at all? Depending on what you want to do, why not just do it for as long as you can?