There is a real different between showing your ID to a person in front of you compared to uploaded a digitized image of it to the internet. The threat vector completely changes once you do that.

If only real 18+ content was the only thing that was affected – unfortunately random other stuff which might at most warrant something like PG (if even that) currently shows up as age-restricted, e.g. the original Tetris God video or the official upload of the Scatmans World music video.

Yes, it existed before and it was moronic even then. But recent EU regulation pushes it onto streaming sites too and that's a different beast altogether considering the enormous amount of tracking that goes on.

The standard we're comparing this to is the past 30 years of Internet Freedom where these invasive nags were nowhere to be found. Nobody was excited about the MPAA in 1995. But we were all excited about the Internet. Now "The Web" has become the MPAA et al. Lame.

The real answer is the behemoths are going to become irrelevant, being inescapably bound to government control and surveillance capitalism. The more hoops and restrictions they add, the more tech people will move to decentralized solutions that don't suffer such bullshit, and eventually the normies will follow. It's just a tragic end to the past few decades of revolutionary energy, pointlessly wasted on centralized dead ends. And in the short term, it's fucking frustrating when trying to get anything done.