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Re:I’m Not Scared to Reenter Society. I’m Just Not Sure I Wa... by smoldesu on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @10:53AM (#27355287)
> People with issues need help, not bullying

Then it's their responsibility to seek it out. If you're privileged enough to lead the life described in the article, you can also afford to visit a therapist on a weekly basis. Otherwise, you can't suddenly expect the general public to treat you with sympathy, particularly if you're among the hyper-rich or otherwise elite.

Re:I’m Not Scared to Reenter Society. I’m Just Not Sure I Wa... by ta1234567890 on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @11:04AM (#27355458)
> Otherwise, you can't suddenly expect the general public to treat you with sympathy, particularly if you're among the hyper-rich or otherwise elite.

Why shouldn’t everyone treat everyone else with sympathy? Why should people be “deserving” of some basic human respect? I’ve only lived my own life, not anyone else’s, so I’m in no position to judge others.

A lot of people that maybe should seek help might not be capable of doing so, probably because of taboos, trauma or other issues.

Re:I’m Not Scared to Reenter Society. I’m Just Not Sure I Wa... by smoldesu on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @12:47PM (#27357457)
Sympathy and respect are two different principals. I treat everyone with respect, but sympathizing with someone requires emotional bandwidth that I don't always have the ability to give. When people cry for help on the internet, I can't offer my assistance anymore. Most of these people would be better suited with introspection than talking to me anyways.
Re:I’m Not Scared to Reenter Society. I’m Just Not Sure I Wa... by ta1234567890 on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @01:23PM (#27358093)
> When people cry for help on the internet, I can't offer my assistance anymore.

So you can’t offer your assistance, but you still spend your time offering criticism in the form of judgmental comments to their stories. That doesn’t seem very respectful.

Re:I’m Not Scared to Reenter Society. I’m Just Not Sure I Wa... by nradov on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @02:01PM (#27358687)
In some cases sympathy is unhelpful or even counterproductive. When someone has an unrealistic or irrational world view they don't need sympathy, they need a hard dose of reality and maybe some practical assistance toward changing their situation.
Re:I’m Not Scared to Reenter Society. I’m Just Not Sure I Wa... by pmoriarty on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @11:21AM (#27355800)
"Then it's their responsibility to seek it out."

Sure.. but what if despite knowing that they still don't?

A lot of people suffering from depression don't seek help despite knowing they should. They watch themselves sinking deeper and deeper, and their lives gradually falling apart and don't ask for help, or even when they do they might not follow through with what they need to do to improve their lives.. from missing therapy appointments, to not taking medication, to not taking the little steps to improve their lives.

There are various reasons for that, but the bottom line is that many of them don't, and no amount of finger wagging at them is going to change that.

Re:I’m Not Scared to Reenter Society. I’m Just Not Sure I Wa... by smoldesu on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @12:37PM (#27357246)
Then it's their responsibility to build a support group. Any therapist will tell you that voicing your gripes to the internet will only hurt your more, which is why you need people around you who you trust to process your emotions with. As a citizen of the internet, I have zero patience for people who make their issues part of my life. It may sounds cruel, but I just don't have the time or emotional liquidity to deal with it. From what I've seen, a lot of other people also share that sentiment.

Mental health is something that should be taken seriously, not spammed on the internet or commoditized.

Re:I’m Not Scared to Reenter Society. I’m Just Not Sure I Wa... by pmoriarty on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @01:31PM (#27358221)
"It may sounds cruel, but I just don't have the time or emotional liquidity to deal with it."

Nobody's forcing you to read this.