I think this is false because varying abilities of people will use the autopilot, not just the worst. The autopilot needs to be better than average for an overall improvement. I think it needs to be much better than average to be compelling enough for most people to adopt it. Most people consider themselves to be good drivers, even with sufficient evidence to the contrary.
That depends entirely on how effective it is and what incentives/disincentives there are (i.e. subsidies, taxes, insurance), which will itself depend on how effective it is.
No one ever said that they could get all of their info from a database. But there is a significant amount of info which they could get from a database, which they might not be able to get at all otherwise.
BTW, the average driver gets in a crash every 18 years. The best humans aren't perfect either, and a self-driving car really only needs to be better than the worst humans to be an improvement (although it will have to be much better to succeed).