2) no, home screen widgets in iOS have been a feature for a while now
3) no, iOS asks me if I want to open in Apple Maps or Google Maps.
I think you're conflating features and design. Whether or not there's a particular feature (turn of WIFI), is not an attribute of the design. So you can fairly say the iOS feature set was too minimal, but you can't attribute that to UI design
This is unfalsifiable, and the line of thinking that generates it is trivially rebutted with a quick look at recent history. All of the limitations I mentioned were lauded as not-actually-useful by Apple (and their partisans) until they launched me-too version, at which point everyone immediately flipped to excitement.
That just makes the downvotes more ridiculous! There's no accounting for taste, and it's easy to imagine someone liking any design over another.
1. Yeah, still not great. 2. No, homescreen widgets now exist in iOS 3. Short answer is "kind of". There's official support for setting default web & email clients, but many (most?) apps support setting a preference for e.g. mapping providers.
All that being said, I think you're coming at things mostly from a feature angle which is perhaps a different discussion.
From a pure aesthetic consistency, polish, and end-to-end visual experience perspective Apple still does a better job than Google.
Whether or not that extra dash of visual polish makes up for feature deficiencies or ecosystem limitations is a broader question of course.
As far as picking practical examples, my lack of familiarity with iOS means some of these may be obsolete, but some obvious ones that come to mind:
1) Is iOS multitasking still as poor as it used to be? Eg, are split-screen apps on the iPhone still impossible?
2) Are homescreen widgets still impossible on iOS?
3) Are you still forced to open (eg) app links with lower-quality off-brand apps like Apple Maps, or can you set your preferred app the first time you open a link of a certain type?
I'm not even going very far afield here, as I'm only picking things that a) I know iOS had a feature gap in at some point and b) I would trip over at least weekly were my OS to have these issues. I'd imagine that one could do a little research and come up with more such examples (as well as examples where iOS's UI is superior to Android's).