You mean like a worm destroying Iranian PLCs?
I suppose that it is a diplomat's job to appear stupid until they have stolen your shoes, but I'm not sure anybody can act that well. My confidence in the West's ability to perpetuate an offensive cyber war is pretty low. Our main advantage is the quantity of servers/data that reside in/flow through our borders, but that's not too hard to dodge. Cryptocurrencies also erase the hammer of losing access to US financing.
Someone I know was happy because he could do his job remotely... controlling an hydroelectric plant... (that should not be possible).
That's a security problem in and of itself.
What would you call the regular use of sanctions or the recent "trade war" with China?
I don't agree with the statement that criminal hackers mean we are at war, but if you consider that kind of damage war the US has been an aggressor for years.