- TV/video games/Facebook
- drinking/drugs/gluttony whether as thrill-seeking or sedatives
- a creative “hobby” (i.e. another job that they’re not good at)
- “traveling” (larping to farm for Instagram validation)
I just find it more interesting to pursue my actual trade.
Of course we all need some amount of rest to stay sharp, but excesses of leisure never seem to produce much, not even happiness. YMMV.
When you say ”I don’t get it...”, my interpretation is that you lack empathy toward people that face life differently from you. Not that is any sort of puzzling behavior, it’s just you failing to make an effort to understand other people.
My observation is merely that a) people rarely seem “happy” in proportion to leisure time spent, b) most people’s leisure time consists of trite activities, steered by indulgent appetites, and is easy prey for others to profit off.
The thread at large makes it sound like all these philosopher kings would pursue their true calling and have wonderful adventures, living life to its fullest, if their boss never wanted them to work late.
Maybe a warmer more empathetic person would refrain from pointing this out. Would people be better off not hearing uncomfortable opinions? A consequentialist might approve of some tough love at times.
I am not reading between the lines, I am reading the lines that you wrote. Accusing me of that ”betraying my own disdain” is just silly.
Obviously you have a very high opinion of yourself. I don’t. I just think you are wrong and silly at some times.
Isn't this you "judging"?
Observation: most people suck at dancing.
Judgement: most people suck at dancing, and that makes them worse than me, for I’m a great dancer.
You may like to work your trade, and that makes you happy, but it doesn't apply to everyone.
The point is that most people, given leisure time, let themselves down. People waste their free time mostly unintentionally. The best of intentions gives way to base impulse and then we rationalize.
Shorter hours would not make you finally learn that instrument.
Why do I do it?
Because there are plenty of things I want to do with my free time and I need time more than I need money. I want to trim my bonsai, I want to go bouldering, I want to go the gym, I want to have time to shop without the after-work rush, I want to work on hobby coding projects, I want to read, I want to solve differential equations, I want to watch TV, I want to clean my house in leisure.
So... why would I produce 25% more for my employer in exchange for 25% more money that I don't really need to lose that time doing things I love? Is anyone's life so simple that more personal time equates fully to just more tv time?
People do more than just TV.
It’s more time spent in with your community. Gardening and spending time outdoors. Time spent exercising or taking a long walk. Spending more time with my child in their formative years. Making music or painting to stimulate my mind differently than the usual work. Reading many books.
What is production, without free time is. What is production, without a life to enjoy.
An active community, body, or brain is not recreation, it’s oxygen.
When I look at what people do off work, it’s mostly TV. They paint like once, then throw out the art supplies. Their kids are watching YouTube on iPads. Participation in the “community” amounts to celebrity gossip, out-group fear-mongering, or inane small talk.
The bubble you live in and describe does not sound like all bubble or even most of them. Canada, Europe, Argentina, many places where I don’t see what you described.
Suppose I can produce the required output in less time (say 20h per week) because I’m just so smart.
Then why would I spend the other 20h just watching TV? Why not produce up to twice the output by working 40h?
If your answer is “I get paid the same regardless of my output,”then that’s the wrong terms for so smart a person.
Employment is for those who (unlike you) aren’t confident about their output capacity and have to resort to selling their input capacity.
If your answer is “I don’t need that much money” then I guess the counter is “I don’t need that much recreation”.