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Re:On incels, dead bedrooms and the hard problems of loneliness by mettamage on Tuesday May 04, 2021 @06:15PM (#27043544)
> Attraction is not a choice.

I sense a seduction community vibe in that quote.

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Re:On incels, dead bedrooms and the hard problems of loneliness by coldtea on Tuesday May 04, 2021 @06:44PM (#27043789)
Seduction would make it, if not a choice, something you can tap with the right skill.

The parent says the opposite: it's NOT a choice, you either feel it or not. So seduction techniques would not apply.

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Re:On incels, dead bedrooms and the hard problems of loneliness by mettamage on Tuesday May 04, 2021 @10:46PM (#27045596)
See David Deangelo’s seminars.

Attraction is not a choice was his mantra. I don’t know if he coined it but he sure made us understand the implications of it.

Since he said it so often, it follows then that when I see it verbatim, I might post something along the lines of sensing seduction community vibes.

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