On incels, dead bedrooms and the hard problems of loneliness

Re:On incels, dead bedrooms and the hard problems of loneliness by 908B64B197 on Tuesday May 04, 2021 @03:23PM (#27041766)

> Her response was that they had so much "male privilege" and that they have no excuse for underperforming. That, thus, they should still be _ahead_ of women, presumably, despite the goal being that they... shouldn't be. They need to pull themselves up from their bootstraps, and "man up", but we also must remember that "man up" is a problematic term that is part of "toxic masculinity".

That made absolutely no sense.

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Re:On incels, dead bedrooms and the hard problems of loneliness by blacktriangle on Tuesday May 04, 2021 @04:53PM (#27042755)

I just read it as "you need to break up with this woman yesterday."

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Re:On incels, dead bedrooms and the hard problems of loneliness by fshbbdssbbgdd on Tuesday May 04, 2021 @07:01PM (#27043935)

My reading of it is that the commenter is interspersing things his partner said during that discussion with conflicting opinions that she expressed at other times. It’s unlikely that she stated all of these things in sequence.

I think it’s normal for people to hold some contradictory views. Our web of mental concepts may have a lot of nodes in it that resemble one another, but with different neighbors, that developed at different times in different contexts. Duplicate records lead to poor consistency!

It seems like the commenter, upon reflection, noticed this inconsistency and was bothered by it. But he has the EQ to realize that starting an argument over it is unproductive, so posted here under a throwaway to get some catharsis.

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