Apologies, but I'd rather not reveal too much personal info. But I did get need-based financial assistance in university. And I did attend a low cost school for financial reasons.

I didn't "pay my way through school washing dishes" or anything like that.

I wasn't supported by my family so the extra income through low pay jobs was critical.

Oh no problem, I'm just pointing out that both your experiences can be valid at the same time

Also, one can make ends meet and still be in poverty. Those aren't mutually exclusive.