Using that much swap frequently sounds like it might wear out your ssd early(thrashing)
Do we have a proof of this?
I can’t use one with less than 16gb because iPhone or Android simulator will chew up memory.
I'm having no trouble running xCode + iOS simulators at all. In fact I think there's some possibility that the iOS simulator could be lighter weight due to ARM -> ARM rather than ARM -> Intel, but that's pure speculation.
Not currently doing any Android work so I can't comment.
That said, I did straight up run out of RAM the other day, but my editor was chewing up something like 32gb of swap. Still no slowdown, though. (I suspect a memory leak, it's very new software)