Re:Show HN: I made a Hacker News for the automotive industry
by birdyrooster on Tuesday April 20, 2021 @04:21AM
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really? at big corp people talk behind each other’s backs about how shitty each other are or another team is but never confront people directly until shit has hit the fan and someone is going on a permanent vacation
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Re:Show HN: I made a Hacker News for the automotive industry
by Fats on Tuesday April 20, 2021 @09:55AM
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I get what you're saying, but being deceitful / being nonconfrontational / sugarcoating stuff is a completely different matter. You can be direct, while being nice.
It seems a lot of people think that if you have to confront someone or tell the truth, you can't be nice. That is pretty sad.
You can be nice, and you can tell people what you really think. It is 100% possible.
It is about how you word it. It is about putting in some effort to take care of others' feelings. I.e. being caring and empathetic.