No, I am not. I grew up in Mumbai and emigrated to USA. Those were my genuine feelings.

As a non-Indian, my impression (after hearing something like that multiple times about Indians) is that people in India may be raised to be more apt to over-use a system (and even abuse it), but it's not unique to them. Every country has people who do it far too much, and everyone does it to some extent.

So don't feel so bad.

Also, these kinds of things are usually a trade off. Your culture has a lot of beautiful things that are unique to it, too. No culture is perfect, and pretty much everyone is just trying to get by.

IMO, be the best you that you can be, enjoy the beauty of life, and don't feel responsible for others.

Thank you for the thoughtful answer. I am not unaware of my first impulse towards anger. I have hurt a lot of people with my angry outbursts. Some of them are in their after lives and I hope my sorry reaches them.

I was also drunk when I wrote my original message. I have been drinking since 8 am since my wife left for work. I also need to get my drinking problem in order.

Good luck! You know what they say, admitting you have a problem is the first step.

There's whole category of user like this https://old.reddit.com/r/canconfirmiamindian/

That's why I asked but I think you're rage is legit as this is the sad relatiy of society right now.

This subreddit is gold. Thanks for sharing.