You're right about the graphemes. If you need it, you need it, but I recommend writing code that does not need to count graphemes if you can avoid them.

In many cases strings are best considered units that can be concatenated at will, but it's best if you avoid splitting them, and if you must split them, generally only split them on ASCII character boundaries. Don't consider "lengths" as something that has a meaning to humans (it doesn't), and don't assume that a "character" is a single JavaScript character (it isn't). If you normally just work strings as opaque sequences of "characters" that can be later displayed, you can avoid many complications (though obviously NOT all of them).