CPI and inflation metrics generally do account for housing costs [1], but the problem is inflation in housing is not evenly distributed. If you live in a coastal city or tech hub, your housing costs have likely risen much faster than the national average. I've found it difficult to get realistic measures of city-level inflation data without trying to construct my own index from various data sources.

[1] https://www.bls.gov/cpi/factsheets/owners-equivalent-rent-an...