I really wish a curated site existed with the intent of the author, but there is more to this than just putting up a database and letting everyone pile on.

This site, started in 1999, attempted OP's goals:

https://foodgeeks.com/

... it was probably one of my fave sites for years that was actively curated, but it took a LOT of time to keep healthy.

I appreciate the effort, but this isn't as easy as it looks.