"Don’t demand that people stop doing a thing until you fully understand why they think it was worth doing.
Only when you fully understand their perspective should you then argue with their specific reasoning."
Closing Chesterton’s Gate:
“Don’t ask rhetorically why people don’t simply do a thing, until you fully understand why they considered but rejected that thing.
Only when you fully understand their perspective should you then argue with their specific reasoning."
Though asking with curiosity, humility and joy, can convert an "argument from failure of imagination" into a "It seems my understanding of the world isn't matching the world! Yay! Learning opportunity! Help me leverage this, let it not slip by unexploited, please?". Those can be wonderfully Aha! fruitful. First step of a bugfix is finding a failure case.
Every now and then, the reply is "that would have been a good idea actually" in which case you still get to look smart. So it's a win+win really.
If the following video explanation is accurate, a tugboat's turbulence can't scour down to ~50 ft depth of sand: https://youtu.be/zBvFuq7Mkzs?t=1m00s
I think the confusion we have with all these news reports is that we really don't have a definitive visualization or geometry of how its actually stuck in the sand that's accurate/authoritative. A bunch of overhead drone shots don't really reveal to us the true extent of the problem that's hidden underneath the waterline.
We just see words about tugboats arriving and water spraying so our instinct is to simplify the problem to "I don't understand why they can't just do <X>?!?"
EDIT to add informative deep link of how the ship got stuck mentioned by another thread: https://youtu.be/5iyn2q6s1Sk?t=4m28s