Re:Female Founder Secrets: Men Clamming Up
by oirjjlksjmfljaj on Sunday March 28, 2021 @05:49PM
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The author literally calls it "the problem of men clamming up." Empathy or not, they're saying the problem is male behavior. This could be framed as "the problem of taking grievances to the mob" or "the problem of overattributing behavior" or anything that puts responsibility for change on some group other than men, but it does not. Whether they're to blame or not, men are the ones behaving incorrectly.
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Re:Female Founder Secrets: Men Clamming Up
by bvaldivielso on Sunday March 28, 2021 @06:27PM
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> "the problem of men clamming up"
Even when phrased that way, I don't perceive that the author is _blaming_ men. The author is critical of the mob, and the dangers of being incorrectly perceived as sexist and ruining one's reputation. You may insist on your interpretation, and fixate your attention on a couple of sentences that ring the wrong way to you, but I think you are missing out on the nuance.
I disagree, the author seems to blame women:
> "If there weren’t both women who made false accusations and an audience eager to hear and magnify such accusations, then the upstanding investors would have nothing to fear about being candid. But, unfortunately, both do exist."