Here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/narcissism/comments/mde5fh/biweekly...

It's my post/sub. You're free to dig in my history and/or DM me.

And of course there are plenty more self aware narcissists to hang out with as well.

You created /r/narcissism, and also label yourself a narcissist? That has to be some kind of high score or something. :)

Very interesting. Thanks for posting it.

Thanks. Contacted you there.

What evidence is there that it is rare?

I'd say it's fairly rare. Most therapists often won't diagnose patients, because it's considered not helpful to the trust relationship and trying to make someone that's narcissistic understand that they are narcissistic is... Hard, because of the splitting and the disconnect between the internal self image and the external presentation.

They'll often mirror or turn it back on you and there's not much you can say at that point ("I'm a narcissist? No! You are a narcissist!"). It's a tricky disorder.