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Re:Self-compassion is not self-indulgence by circlefavshape on Thursday March 25, 2021 @12:13PM (#26582065)
Erm ... what's wrong with self-indulgence?
Re:Self-compassion is not self-indulgence by Jtsummers on Thursday March 25, 2021 @12:43PM (#26582438)
Not necessarily anything until it gets to an extreme, but it's not self-compassion and that's the point of the article (or a chunk of it, most of the article is about what self-compassion actually is but doesn't spend too much time contrasting it with other things). Many people conflate the two concepts and self-indulgence (being generally egocentric) is often considered "bad". If the two ideas get mixed together then this leads to a rejection of self-compassion as well.
Re:Self-compassion is not self-indulgence by da_big_ghey on Thursday March 25, 2021 @04:52PM (#26585229)
There is no wrong in a simple indulginces. I have completed big project in recent week past and went for purchase my self ice-cream-cone. This indulgence, not necesity. There is however existing today in West large cultures of "poor me"/of pitying self. One is never failing, simply try ones best. The pendulem has swung to far in the oposite direction from fifty years in past time.
Re:Self-compassion is not self-indulgence by tittenfick on Thursday March 25, 2021 @09:52PM (#26587999)
They're vapid, meaningless. They don't give you any fulfillment, they only act as a distraction from your problems.
Re:Self-compassion is not self-indulgence by stevenhuang on Thursday March 25, 2021 @02:29PM (#26583676)
We wouldn't want to end up like the Aeldaris now would we?

https://warhammer40k.fandom.com/wiki/Aeldari

Re:Self-compassion is not self-indulgence by aimor on Thursday March 25, 2021 @12:33PM (#26582319)
The excessiveness of it.