I must respect your karma, but I'd wager you'd find something you're not expecting if you addressed the social anxiety, addiction, and chatty mind you allude to here (I understand you will probably object to these characterizations).

Some people take the state of their mind as a given and structure their life around that. Others learn that you can change your mind.

My experience is that the latter leads to profound riches. But then, I failed at the former.