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Re:Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desex... by JimBlackwood on Monday March 08, 2021 @02:31AM (#26383110)
Kids don’t know if something is good, bad, weird or whatever until they’re told. If you are fine not wearing clothes, and do it in your home, your kids wont think anything of it.
Re:Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desex... by airhead969 on Monday March 08, 2021 @08:42AM (#26385581)
Yes. Kids are taught to be ashamed of their bodies by their parents and society. And then teenagers are taught to be ashamed of sex. Some societies inculcate even more shame than others.
Re:Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desex... by Cthulhu_ on Monday March 08, 2021 @08:58AM (#26385757)
It's one tactic to try and avoid them 'accidentally' having sex at a young age (and getting pregnant and everything). I can kind of see everything, I mean on the one side sex ed is important, but if they can avoid attempting it for a few years until they're more well-rounded individuals it'll be a double bonus.

Mind you, I've very much been a late bloomer so my perspective is probably not representative.

Re:Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desex... by refurb on Monday March 08, 2021 @03:11AM (#26383310)
Not true. It’s not uncommon for a toddler to find a private place to defecate without being told. There is an innate sense of a need for privacy for some things.
Re:Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desex... by torgian on Monday March 08, 2021 @04:14AM (#26383644)
I will now point you towards mainland China, where kids as old as 90 will shit in the streets. I’m not kidding either (although this is changing in the larger cities.... slowly)
Re:Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desex... by airhead969 on Monday March 08, 2021 @08:43AM (#26385589)
Yeap. I've seen this. People who pee or poo wherever they're at.
Re:Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desex... by refurb on Monday March 08, 2021 @05:54AM (#26384366)
That’s learned behavior.
Re:Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desex... by petr25102018 on Monday March 08, 2021 @03:34AM (#26383445)
But isn't this just an instinct not to defecate at the place where he/she plays and spends time? How can you be so sure that it is about privacy?
Re:Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desex... by chromanoid on Monday March 08, 2021 @05:49AM (#26384336)
A private place is often a good idea, so predators wont eat you when you are so vulnerable. There are many places where nakedness is the norm and the naked people will probably still search for private places when defecating.
Re:Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desex... by pbhjpbhj on Monday March 08, 2021 @04:19AM (#26383674)
Are you sure that's not learned behaviour? I've only ever seen it in older kids. I'd hypothesise it follows "expert" advise that suggests what I consider very late potty training.
Re:Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desex... by refurb on Monday March 08, 2021 @05:54AM (#26384362)
Well consider 1 year olds will do it (my daughter did it when wearing diapers) even though we have no indication it was needed.
Re:Modern action films fetishize the body even as they desex... by pbhjpbhj on Monday March 08, 2021 @01:19PM (#26389405)
I've spent time around more babies & toddlers than most people see in a lifetime (sometimes >50 per day; probably no more than 2000 per year though; for >decade; [working at baby & toddler groups]).

Could you say if this was a fixed behaviour (ie they always sought a private place to poop), had a fixed location (eg always behind the couch), if you used a potty at the time, and exactly which month it appeared at so I can note it with my own observations. Cheers.