Got evidence for this?

(I'm not calling you wrong here.. I'm just pointing out that it's very hard to correlate a user with a real identity.. there are a lot of people out there)

Go play any popular game with voice chat and say you're Black.

Go play any online game and have a gay sounding voice. All of the sudden that great white male privilege women like this think we have also disappears.

Yup, I agree women and minority groups are often targeted with online harassment. That also doesn't mean a white gay male doesn't benefit from inherent biases elsewhere in society.

Abuse for having a feminine-sounding voice is not the zinger against male privilege that you think it is.

A friend of mine got on a programming forum once and pretended to be female. The result was far cringier than I would have predicted.

Similarly, I remember seeing some pretty awful comments on HN threads regarding female programmers.

Comment after comment shitting on their achievements, presumably from mediocre men who feel threatened by a successful woman in the field.

Not just here either. It's an industry-wide problem.

No, just vibes.

But I know it's something many others have observed too - it's not like I'm inventing this out of nothing.