That doesn't prevent a folder size calculation. It does mean you need to do a graph traversal, and you might need to supplement the feature with a visualization akin to what you get from windirstat/baobab/etc, so users know what's factoring into the calculation.
It also likely means this isn't an instantaneous operation, but again, I look at windirstat/baobab as examples for how to present a UX that's workable.
But that doesn't prevent the feature from being built, and the fact that rclone already has it says to me the gdrive team has simply chosen not to make this functionality available.
Given Google's history with UX and support of existing products, the other possibility is the product is simply understaffed/undermaintained and poorly managed. This is the "incompetence" take.
And again, to emphasize: rclone can do this today. Is it a bit slow (and possibly limited)? Absolutely. But it works, and is how I've turned to managing my own gdrive quota since Google seems to be either unwilling or incapable of offering the functionality themselves.
Given that Google does offer you tools for managing your quota, and knowing it's a very difficult problem to solve, I'm disinclined to believe this is malicious or incompetent.
There may not be a way to do this yet, but hopefully should be coming someday. One key thing to understand is that Google Drive seems to be implemented as a graph, not a tree. This becomes apparent when you realized that any item (folder or file) could be placed into multiple directories on your drive. This allowed for cycles and lots of other crazy things within the filesystem (as you aren't guaranteed to have a single parent folder).
Now, this behavior finally changed in Sept 2020[1], and they are backfilling all mutli-links to be shortcut (symlink) based. This should finally allow for proper directory navigation and determining size. It also fixes all kinds of other problems that a graph file system causes.
[1] https://cloud.google.com/blog/products/g-suite/simplifying-g...