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Re:Munchausen Syndrome by Recruiter by dvt on Tuesday February 16, 2021 @01:15PM (#26156929)
Apart from the points the article makes (all good), and the overarching lesson (don't use a recruiter), this line really stuck out to me:

> Job loss is one of the most stressful life events, along with the death of a loved one, divorce, and a significant illness.

It's so sad (and true) that a job loss -- something that doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things -- is comparable to the death of a loved one or an illness. End-stage capitalism, indeed. It's probably why a whole bunch of us are attracted to the startup life and doing your own thing -- even though that comes with its own set of (more often worse) downsides.

Re:Munchausen Syndrome by Recruiter by u678u on Tuesday February 16, 2021 @01:32PM (#26157116)
> It's so sad (and true) that a job loss -- something that doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things

Maybe if you're a developer in a strong economy that is true.

I've seen lots of middle-aged people laid off that started the spiral into unemployment, divorce and at least one suicide.

Re:Munchausen Syndrome by Recruiter by dvt on Tuesday February 16, 2021 @01:34PM (#26157145)
I think you may have misunderstood my post. A job loss shouldn’t matter, but sadly it does.
Re:Munchausen Syndrome by Recruiter by u678u on Tuesday February 16, 2021 @05:10PM (#26159396)
Yeah I get it you're right too.
Re:Munchausen Syndrome by Recruiter by benrothke on Tuesday February 16, 2021 @01:22PM (#26157009)
Thanks for the reply.

To clarify, I did not mean to imply not to use recruiters. Rather to use them selectively and cautiously. As a good, trusted recruiter can mean the difference between getting a job and not. I know a few of the best, and would gladly recommend them.